Alessandro Monte

What I've Learn the Hard Way...



Posted: Saturday, August 29, 2009

by Alessandro Monte

I've learned that one can not make another love him or her,

all one can do is be someone who can be loved,the rest is up to them...

That no matter how much we care,some people just will not care back...

I've learned that regardless of how passionate and full of excitement a relationship is at first,with out love it just will not survive long.

Lots of times others will love you but not the way you always expected,but that may be the only way they knew how.

I've learned that don't matter how bad your heart been broken the world will not stand still for it to heal...

That we can keep on going long after we think that all we have to give is gone...

That all the years taken to build a strong trust,can be broken on a moment of a little white lie...

I've learn that money and all it can buy is a sure way to show your accomplishment in life but a poor way to show what is in your heart...

That really don't matter what you have in this life ,but who you will have with and what you will be remembered by...

And what you can say or do in a minute,may have a lifetime worth of regrets...

I've learn that real friends will find us even when we can't find our selves.

That will be times when we will find ourselves angry,and even if we have all the rights to do so we should never take that anger in someone else...

I've learn that maturity has more to do with ones experience in life and its turns,than the turn of ones calendar year...

But above all I've learn that even at my worst the ones who love me were able to find my best,and that it took me too long,and too many losses to become the man i am today.

So I've learned that life is a perfect circle,full with imperfections,and that all we do as we start each day,will be the image of each nights end.

So i ask you what has taken you to learn in life with out taking the hard road?

We all make mistakes,we all fail,been hurt,but at the end of each day still goes back to how we were at the worst moments in our lives as it could've also been the best,God finds a way to overlook all our imperfections every single day,He gives us a brand new start with each day,He loves us unconditionally,and in my personal life i can tell you that even if i am lost,alone,down,i never been out,but not by my strength but by the strength,love,and will of the One who created me as i am today,that even in my sickness i still feel the need to stretch out and touch others heart,even when all in my life may be going wrong and it may seem like there is no way out,i still have the need to smile,love and guide others as i desperately hang in the hope,believe and faith that my Father will not let me carry m ore than i can hold it.Thank you and God bless.

Alessandro Monte 01/03/1998 (C)



Alessandro Carlo Monte, a messenger, God's server, an inspirational and motivational writer, writing simple words from the heart, Father of two smart, kind and loving sons ages 14 and 16 who are his life, and who one day will be a great part of Gods vision along his side.

Born in Brazil, moved to the USA at the age of 19 filled with dreams and courage, his passion for learning helped him to strive hard to accomplish his visions and overcome the trials of learning new cultures, languages in this amazing country called United States of America.

Never had a chance to spent a day in school in the USA, but worked hard not to keep him from doing what he loves to do, encourage and inspire people with simple but heartfelt words & actions that may bring a transformation in the way others see life, family, love, and faith!

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