Alessandro Monte

Happiness Is More Than Just a Feeling, It's a Way of Living!



Posted: Thursday, June 02, 2011

by Alessandro Monte

Happiness and sadness are much more than opposite feelings we all have, they are a result of words and actions taken by others, and sometimes mistakes that we made bringing those two emotions out, so one can actually say that happiness or sadness is nothing more than a choice, we can choose to fall into the sorrows of our mistakes and choices, or learn to laugh at it and even more important, outlast them.

I understand that through the years we all get transformed by life, some scared more than others, life never plays fair, but thankfully some of us have a reinforcement team supporting us into the right way to live, someone we try to be like, happy, and fully living, but many out there don't, and that is all they know, the attitude, the tattoos, and slang all a way to create a protecting wall, to push people back before they get too close to hurt them, some either hide scared and others burst in anger living a life of self destruction, but don't matter what they do, they still will find themselves lost, hurt, and in a world of confusion and pain.

I learned that we all live, hate, and love as we all seeing it done and lived in our own lives, we become at times what we as a child promised ourselves never to be like, for example; "Did you ever did something to your child. or say something and realize that you just became your mom or dad?", lol. Reason why I look at peoples heart, not what they are doing in their life, or what they have done, I don't try to preach, but simply to be DIFFERENT, to be a simple light, black and white, TRANSPARENT, in hope to reach their heart by my actions, that will support my words...

life is too short and rarely makes any sense at the time things happen, so wherever you are in life today lighten up, just live! Know that nothing in life is more important than to have the Wisdom to be able to have a clear understanding of the questions and turns life constantly brings, and even more important is to appreciate the ones who loves us day in and day out, regardless of all our faults they always stand there as our best friends, family, and lovers, "THAT" my friends is what life is all about...

Happiness in life can never depend on others, or the moments we go through, but it has to be a CHOICE our mind and heart makes consciously, we were all given a life to be lived not survived, but the world is been there all along to transform the way we see things, the way we use or even neglect the gifts God has given us from birth, we all can get lost in a world of pain, confused, regretful and angry if we stand too long along those that it is all they see, we must find others who see the beauty of life, the joy in it, in everyone and everything, so we can rise above our own darkness, we all been there once or a few times, we are humans and doomed to fail, but the key is to keep on keeping on smiling ; ).

Alessandro Carlo Monte, 06/02/2011, (C)
Alessandro Carlo Monte, a messenger, God's server, an inspirational and motivational writer, writing simple words from the heart, Father of two smart, kind and loving sons ages 14 and 16 who are his life, and who one day will be a great part of Gods vision along his side.

Born in Brazil, moved to the USA at the age of 19 filled with dreams and courage, his passion for learning helped him to strive hard to accomplish his visions and overcome the trials of learning new cultures, languages in this amazing country called United States of America.

Never had a chance to spent a day in school in the USA, but worked hard not to keep him from doing what he loves to do, encourage and inspire people with simple but heartfelt words & actions that may bring a transformation in the way others see life, family, love, and faith!

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